Survey Says #MeToo May Be Quashing Company Holiday Parties

By | November 9, 2018

  • November 9, 2018 at 9:15 am
    PolarBeaRepeal says:
    Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 10
    Thumb down 20

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

    • November 9, 2018 at 9:26 am
      PolarBeaRepeal says:
      Poorly-rated. Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 6
      Thumb down 16

      Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

      • November 9, 2018 at 3:02 pm
        Rosenblatt says:
        Like or Dislike:
        Thumb up 10
        Thumb down 2

        or maybe you’re not getting replies because … (emphasis added)

        OCTOBER 18, 2018 AT 7:51 PM Andrew G. Simpson says:

        We are trying to clean up the forum and would welcome your cooperation along with that of all other regular posters. Please help us by setting an example.

        First, please stay on topic. If someone else strays from the topic of an article, there is no need for you to follow that person down that path. Off-topic comments will be deleted. We may miss some but that is no excuse to post another.

        Not every article, news item or argument is political. This comment section is not a place for you to repeatedly flex your partisan political muscles or engage in tit-for-tat exchanges with a handful of others.

        We seek commentary from an insurance perspective from insurance professionals wanting to educate, clarify, contextualize or counter a story or other opinion.

        We respectfully request that all commenters refrain from insults towards one another, avoid profanities and show respect for others at all times. If you or anyone else can’t make your point without insulting another person’s intelligence, morals, ethnicity, character or other trait, then please don’t post it. Those who engage in such behaviors ruin the forum experience for the majority who follow the rules of civil discourse. Comments that disrespect others will be deleted.

        Some of you complain that your comment was deleted while so-and-so’s comment was not. We don’t have the staff or the desire to monitor this comment section 24/7. It is meant to be self-regulating.

        Andrew Simpson
        Chief Content Officer
        Wells Media Group

        • November 15, 2018 at 1:08 pm
          PolarBeaRepeal says:
          Like or Dislike:
          Thumb up 0
          Thumb down 0

          Nope. That’s not it. The real answer is in my 1st post.

  • November 9, 2018 at 9:24 am
    PolarBeaRepeal says:
    Well-loved. Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 14
    Thumb down 3

    Why spoil the holiday season at places of work by cancelling holiday parties due to concerns over misbehavior of a few workers?! If HR and senior management were doing their jobs effectively, they’d have purged any misbehaving employees, and would be establishing rules of behavior at the parties that prevent harassment, etc.

    No alcohol, or one drink limits, is another commonly used risk management approach (currently used to prevent DUI incidents that create liability for the company) that will reward, rather than punish (due to prior bad acts of a few), the well behaved, loyal employees.

    • November 9, 2018 at 1:27 pm
      Chris says:
      Well-loved. Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 15
      Thumb down 1

      I agree. It’s not celebrating the holidays that’s the problem; its the alcohol consumption that usually causes the vast number of issues. I know people who have lost jobs due to this; lowered inhibitions, you say and do things you know you shouldn’t do when you are sober. Our company has a holiday party with no alcohol. If we want to gather outside the premises to drink; its not company sanctioned.

  • November 9, 2018 at 1:28 pm
    Chris says:
    Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 1
    Thumb down 1

    WOW is all I can say.

    • November 9, 2018 at 1:49 pm
      craig cornell says:
      Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 1
      Thumb down 0

      While the media refuse to report on it, conservatives are routinely assaulted now. Not just Senators and members of Congress but conservative media figures. Rand Paul went to the hospital with broken ribs. Steve Scalise was nearly killed. Imagine if that were Diane Feinstein and Nancy Pelosi.

      The assault on Tucker Carlson’s house this week got a lot of attention. Not so much the assaults on other Fox News anchors and contributors that have been going on for some time.

      On a much less serious note, I have been called a racist 7 times since Trump was elected and if you knew me you would know how ridiculous that is. Many of my conservative friends have been called the same; I joke when I see them now by saying “Hey, racist.” They all laugh; they get it. It is just out of control, the vitriol (and it clouds real racism).

      It’s getting ugly, folks. Need to take a stand. If you think this stuff won’t spread and get worse and start to impact people on the left, think again.

  • November 9, 2018 at 1:38 pm
    rob says:
    Well-loved. Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 17
    Thumb down 2

    Personally, I’m in favor of ANY excuse to cancel the company holiday party.

    • November 9, 2018 at 2:28 pm
      ??? says:
      Well-loved. Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 11
      Thumb down 1

      The voice of reason! Office party is just a night I have to spend at work. Is it nice, do they do good things, absolutely, but I would rather be at home with my family than go to the office party 100/100 times.

      • November 13, 2018 at 10:22 am
        PolarBeaRepeal says:
        Like or Dislike:
        Thumb up 1
        Thumb down 1

        Who is forcing you to attend? If any such policy is set in writing, or verbally to multiple employees at your company, call your lawyer.

        • November 13, 2018 at 10:33 am
          rob says:
          Like or Dislike:
          Thumb up 2
          Thumb down 0

          it’s not mandatory, just “highly encouraged”. You get “volun-told” to attend.

        • November 14, 2018 at 9:53 am
          UW says:
          Like or Dislike:
          Thumb up 0
          Thumb down 0

          A lot of people have to go. If you had worked in modern times at an actual workplace you would know this.

        • November 14, 2018 at 11:49 am
          ??? says:
          Like or Dislike:
          Thumb up 0
          Thumb down 1

          That’s your advice? Don’t enjoy your holiday party… hire a lawyer.. Very conservative of you.

          • November 15, 2018 at 1:11 pm
            PolarBeaRepeal says:
            Like or Dislike:
            Thumb up 0
            Thumb down 0

            I don’t need to hire a lawyer; I gladly accept the opportunity to mingle with my co-workers. Others, like “???”, might need to hire a lawyer if their company enforced compliance. I’m not aware of any such companies.

  • November 9, 2018 at 2:05 pm
    hair down below my knees says:
    Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 7
    Thumb down 0

    It’s the only time of year I ‘let my hair down’ at a company function, and I’m bald!

    • November 9, 2018 at 3:49 pm
      Fair Playing Field says:
      Well-loved. Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 10
      Thumb down 0

      Got to be a joker
      He just do what he please

  • November 9, 2018 at 2:43 pm
    SWFL Agent says:
    Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 8
    Thumb down 1

    It’s never a good idea to consume alcohol around coworkers. First thing you know, you’re knocking back a few Hennigans and then having sex with the cleaning lady. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

    • November 9, 2018 at 2:47 pm
      rob says:
      Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 7
      Thumb down 0

      Was that wrong? Should I not have done that? I tell you, I gotta plead ignorance on this thing, because if anyone had said anything to me at all when I first started here that that sort of thing is frowned upon…you know, ’cause I’ve worked in a lot of offices, and I tell you, people do that all the time.

      • November 9, 2018 at 2:52 pm
        SWFL Agent says:
        Like or Dislike:
        Thumb up 4
        Thumb down 0

        You nailed it Rob!

      • November 9, 2018 at 2:59 pm
        Rosenblatt says:
        Like or Dislike:
        Thumb up 7
        Thumb down 0

        rob (getting up and leaving): Alright! That’s it for me. Goodnight everybody.

        also rob, “I knew I had hit my high note so I thanked the crowd and I was gone.” :)

        • November 10, 2018 at 12:42 pm
          whatever happened says:
          Like or Dislike:
          Thumb up 2
          Thumb down 0

          to old fashioned love…?

          Another place with similar shocking results are off campus, company sponsored training programs, esp if it brings strangers together — way worse behavior than company holiday parties because the parties usually have most or all of the management present, whereas management’s presence is usually limited at trainings

    • November 14, 2018 at 8:40 am
      NC P&C Agent says:
      Like or Dislike:
      Thumb up 1
      Thumb down 0

      Go to bed with Meryl Streep… wake up with Merle Haggard.

      (Ripped off from someone, just not sure who.)

  • November 19, 2018 at 1:15 pm
    Lorraine Aren says:
    Like or Dislike:
    Thumb up 0
    Thumb down 0

    Holiday parties have become a nightmare for organizations for many reasons, but most of them could be handled by communicated expectations and disciplinary actions as PolarBeaRepeal asserts. Yet, what I see happening is death of the holiday party due to diversity. The organization cant possibly please everyone and someone is gonna be offended, and quite possibly sue over the perceived offense.



Add a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*